During the service year on Camp in those days, the soldiers would say “if you’re still in the room, then you’re wrong” “If you’re walking, you’re wrong, double up, double up”….
And now I’m saying this; If your spouse is not yet your best friend, then you’re wrong.
Make your spouse your best friend and confidant, don’t allow them get the best friendship outside, let your presence be meaningful to them, don’t be tired of talking, bring up a habit you must be involved in everyday to keep you moving.
A woman said “I and my husband hardly have misunderstanding that lasts for an hour” and they’ve been married for more than 19 yrs and I asked her how they got to manage it, she said when they got married, they promised themselves to always have a kiss on their forehead before they go to sleep and before they go out, so even when they have serious issues, her husband would still do that with a strong face and then wait a little before he leaves the house no matter how he gets to be in a hurry and within the little period he waits, she would want to do hers and while doing hers, he would just hug her and they would end the quarrels, so many times, they get to land on the bed again for action and the husband might get to go late to wherever he’s going to, that it pleases him to be late than having an unsettled issue with his wife before he goes out or sleep.
I asked, but why does he have to wait a little before he leaves after giving her a kiss on the forehead, she said; The rule was that, for every debit entry, there must be a corresponding credit entry which means that, anyone who gives the kiss first must also receive it in return and you know women’s heart might be a bit hard at times not because we’re not willing but because of that feminine feelings in us and it might take her time to get over it especially when she feels, she’s not at fault, and besides, that was when they just started it cos it wasn’t easy for her to forgive then but now, her husband has taught her how to forgive easily that she even does it first now, and after then they can now be talking about who was wrong and that might not even be necessary again, not discussing it when they were still boiling and that makes things very easy for them.
Help your marriage, make a decision today never to go to bed or leave the house without settling issues with your spouse and it will surely help you two. Peace can’t come by magic, you have to work and call for it before it can stand. It’s never too late, you can also welcome this in your home.
Thank You Jesus.
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