What Is Child Sexual Abuse? Lola’s Story
Children Series Part 1 [8+]
Lola is usually taken to school by their driver. Sometimes on her way to school, the driver would touch her breast. On other days, the driver tells Lola to touch his private body part. She was scared because the driver threatened to kill her if she tells anyone. Lola couldn’t tell her parents because she didn’t want to die. When Lola read a book about child sexual abuse, then she knew what the driver was doing to her was wrong. She told her father and the driver was arrested by the police.
Child sexual abuse occurs when someone older than the child – such as an adult, an older child or a teenager touches your genitals, breast, buttocks or any other private part of the body. This touch can make you feel uncomfortable and funny.
It is sexual abuse when an adult rubs his or her body against you in a sexual way or tries to tongue-kiss you.
Sexual abuse also occurs when an adult shows you his or her naked body, or ask you to touch or play with his or her private body part.
Child sexual abuse takes place when an adult takes off his/her clothes or ask you to take off your clothes with the intention of looking at or touching your private body part; or an adult peeps to watch you having your bath.
Child sexual abuse also happens when a grown up shows you pornographic pictures (e.g. photograph, magazines, films or other materials with sexual scenes) or when someone takes your picture without your clothes on.
Incest: This occurs when a child is sexually abused by a blood relative such as a parent, step-parent, grant-parent, uncle, aunty, cousin, brother or sister. Sexual abuse is bad. It destroys you.
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- Sexuality Issues for Adult Survivors of Incest and Child Sexual Abuse (stoningdemons.wordpress.com)